Like physical health, the couple relationship can be assessed in a broad spectrum, ranging from the idyllic marriage to the abusive relationship. Couple relationships are complex and multifaceted, some more positive than others. Rate the quality of your relationship by answering "yes" or "no" to the following questions.In your relationship:- Do you feel free to express yourself?- Do you feel that your spouse is listening to you?- Do you feel depressed and encouraged in your projects?- Do you respect yourself and admire your spouse?- In return, did you feel that your spouse respects you and admires you?- Are you feeling energized and comforted in your relationship?- Do you share the power with your partner?- Do you trust what your spouse told you and your spouse trusts what you have told?- Do you consider your marriage has a positive impact and rewarding in your life?If you answered "yes" to at least five of these questions, congratulations! Your matrimony seems to play a positive role in your lifeNow ask yourself the following questions:- In your relationship your spouse drains a lot of your energy?- Is there a source of concern or conflict?- Do you feel that your mate or life partner is not listening to your needs and your desires?- Do you feel controlled or you are experiencing stress, do you have fear or do you feel betrayed?- When you speak to your partner do you feel that you are lying?- Do you feel there is no more power in this relationship?- Do you consider your marriage as a negative in your life?All these situations are indications of an unhealthy relationship. If your answer is “yes” to atleast four of the above you should consult a therapist, doctor or other health professional that you trust. A lot of times differences come when there is no understanding between your partner and yourself. Whether it is love or arranged marriage, understanding each other is key in a relationship. Kulalar matrimonial sites can help you finding a partner of your choice. There are many partner preferences you can filter through a profile while selecting a partner from matrimony site like Matchfinder.
